Agony Aunt

Question:
Me and my ex were going out with each other for just over three months and when he finished with me we told each other we would stay friends but now when I see him out he never even smiles at me or says hi or anything. How can I ask if I have done anything wrong without it backfiring?

Agony Aunt Says:
The only way you can find out is if you ask him. The reason he may be acting funny with you could be that as he has only known you as a girlfriend, he may not be sure how to act around you as a friend. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him face to face you could try texting or calling him.

Question:
My boyfriend is getting to clingy to me and he is always wanting sex off of me because we haven't done it in 2 months what should I do?

Agony Aunt Says:
Have you tried talking to him and asking him what he is acting like this? You may also want to think about why are in a relationship with someone that you don't want to have sex with. Have your feelings for him changed or do you feel he is only interested in sex & not you. Regardless of what happens. I am glad that you are not having sex with him just to keep him. Remember you should never feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. Good Luck.

Question:
I am going out with this lad now for just over a month. i really want to have sex with him and so does he but his penis is very small is this normal? He is 18. Please reply xx

Agony Aunt Says:
There is no such thing as a normal penis; they come in all shape & sizes. It's not the actual size that matters but usually technique. There are positions you can try that make it more pleasurable, regardless of size. Or you could try oral sex. You need to take your focus away from what he doesn't have & instead focus on what he does. Quality is more important than quantity. You may also want to think about if you are really ready to have sex with him, as if you're not comfortable with every aspect of his body, maybe you aren't ready.

Question:
Well, I'm a boy and girls think im ugly. Sometimes I attract girls but most of the time I don't. It's normally because they think im ugly, everyone thinks I'm funny and so it's just the thing with the ugliness... What can I do?

Agony Aunt Says:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds attractive will not be the same as another. A lot of girls go for personality and like boys that can make them laugh. I think you need to work on your self confidence if you start to see yourself as attractive then so will others.